Help me please about living this life.?

Hey my name is Harry and I'm 14 years old boy.



Help me to be real since living in a La la land is wayyyyyyyyyyyy toooooooo muchhhhhhhhhh!!!!



I'm being spoiled by my parent's , granting everything i want , they choose my cloths for me i can't pick my own which i mean i can only go out malls with my parents and when i buy in store they choose style , size , pretty much all for me.., i only hang with my sis and bro i can't hang with friends since i am overprotected,



and WTH! I am full of gadgets and honestly i'm sick of it. i had 5 sim cards always change regularly cause my parents are freaking overprotected when a stranger calls and they know it they will soon change my sim why??? cause what they want is only them to call so does only relatives other than that none and non one can call me (guys i'm not a girl to be protected come on!!) ,



I can't play loud music in home since they say don't i am bored locking in the home!!! all i do is take a bath everyday , go to school , back home swimming , and what else look at balcony come on!!! then sleep? or play PS3 all time? i just want to go out myself or play loud music for fun in MY OWN ROOM!!! WTH



Hey and BTW i hate being stalked by my uncle and auntpretty much works in home, which I KNOW they always watch me, help me get out! of this,



I'm not the only one being treated overprotected my elder sister and and younger brother.



Hey guys anyone in here help me be real i wanna be real 14 years old i want to be able to choose my own cloths and i don't want any cell phone and sim card since only people calls me is my freaking parents which always ask are you ok? , did you eat? , what are you doing? , every SINGLE DAY!!!



Internet is secured help me to access youtube it says URL blocked restricted blah blah blah.



Heres all i want you to do guys.



Help me to get out of this house on my own!!



Help me how to speak to my parents i don't want any iPhones or sim cards



Help me speak to them that i want to be able choose what i want!



Help me to be able to make friends!!



Help me to access youtube or to unrestrict social sites also like myspace or whatever.



And help me to get away from my watcher's!



Or can you tell me if i should runaway???



HEY PEOPLE! i also want to get rid of gadgets and i don't want games anymore PS3 or whatever , I don't want any phones anymore!!! i just want a cam a piece of iPod nano and i'm ready to go,



Hey people don't think were rich we are not! i i don't never wanna be rich i just want simple life,



and about my parents they are busy my mom is always out for like 12hrs a day and dad is in other country for any freaking reason.



i hate being spoiled cause i feel bad and poor whenever i realize how other 14 live,



and i'm new in yahoo and i will ask only once hope you can help guys.Help me please about living this life.?
ok, my sugestion, summarize, shorten repost. that is like the longest question ive ever seen here.Help me please about living this life.?
Hey, i could understand ur situation. But dont be so quick to take any decision. if u are above 18, then my answer would be different to u. But now, it is better u balance or adjust the situation. All unhappy people have some way to reach their happiness. Join in sme music classes or something which u r interested in and start enjoying ur life inside that strict atmosphere. If i were in ur place, i will manage to go to hostel or abroad for my studies when i am mature enough and handle the life in my own way!!until that wait and enjoy the life u have......Help me please about living this life.?
Where you going to run away to at 14 years old. You live in your parents house, so its by their rules. Be grateful you have a roof over your head. Be grateful you have something to eat. Be grateful you have a family that cares. You want to pick out your own clothes? Are you going to pay for them also?



I guess you can pick out your own clothes, cell phone, etc. and do whatever you want when you are of legal age, or able to financially take care of yourself.



If all those things bother you so much, why not have a conversation with your parents about it?Help me please about living this life.?
Hey Harry~! ok i will tell you what I think of your situation.

I still think you are not fully prepared to leave your house. The only thing you are gonna get from running away is your parents getting worried, punishing you and on top of that being more over protective.



Have you tried talking to them? maybe on a weekend or when your dad is back home? and note that i said %26quot;talking%26quot; if you start screaming and shouting at them, they will only think you are an spoiled brat and will shout back and won't try to even understand you at all.



You can start by telling them you feel oppressed, that you are not happy with the life they are providing you. That you want and need to make new friends, other than your siblings. Tell them that you have your own personality and that you want to choose your own clothes, your own things that represent you and give you character. Of course they are worried something might happen to you and yes probably they are over protective, but try to understand them a bit. They call you because they are afraid of loosing you. My mom calls me every time I'm out and I'm 22, I even call her telling her %26quot;mom I'm leaving the place, I'm heading home%26quot; just to not worry her, it doesn't cost a thing to call her and tell her where I am.



A solution to your loud music is wear headphones, but also take care of your ears when you get old you will be deaf.



The internet problem perhaps you could talk to your siblings and all 3 of you could talk to your mom or dad and asks them if they could trust you a little bit and give you access to those websites, or you could also talk to your aunt or uncle and tell the how you feel and make friends with them, how do you know they might persuade your parents into letting use the websites.



Talking about your aunt and uncle stalking you, they are only babysitting because ur parents are again worried about you. So don't blame them for helping your parents. Try to befriend them, they might help you talk to your parents.



If you aren't able to talk to your mom or dad, try writing a letter to them explaining how you feel, and how your siblings feel as well. You can leave it at their night stand. Wait until they read it and see if there's any change.



Well best of lucks~! and remember don't run away is the most immature thing you could do and will prove to your parents you are not old enough to be trusted. :)